Friday, November 17, 2006 @ 6:49 PM
i said i wanted to blog about the conversation i overheard yesterday on the way back home. so here it goes..
there's this girl, i guess roughly about the same age as me who's talking to her bf( i concluded) on the phone. not that i wanted to hear what's she talking but she's talking so loud and the bus was practically empty. those typed in "..." are what the girl had said while those typed in (...) are my comments and thoughts.
"i was once a very cheerful girl. you have changed me...." (what's her problem man? dump this guy and be your cheerful self again. she mentioned this phrase twice.)
"i've changed because of you. you tell what you don't like then i change...." (her whole conversation is bout what she change here change there..i mean if you have changed then you are not your usual self again right? it becomes so pretendious. why change when both of them like the way each other was initially? they argued over this point for so long.)
"everytime i say that only a joke only. why you cannot take jokes....and say i insult you. i never insult you."
"you everytime insult me, say me this and that....where got never insult....so obvious insult me" (what if what the guy say also meant to be a joke? why the girl can say jokes but the guys can't? i really feel damn puzzled.)
"i become very irritated talking to you. you go reflect and think about your actions before coming here and saying me...." ( i think she's the one who should be reflecting.)
there's more to it. but i can't recall. just feel that it's a very petty conversation. harsh words were exchanged which i didnt typed out.
relationships are indeed complicated issues which have to be handled with care. i won't say that i'm a expert in relationship stuff but i have heard much stories about them. some people take it lightly, some people take it seriously. it all boils down to your own self. to me, fate is a miracle that can bring people together. everything in life is destined. because of love, some people can do stupid things, some people can do noble things. utimately, it's your will and mindset about the things you do. don't toy with others feelings for you might hurt yourself greatly in the end. and treasure the ones you loved. many of times, we take people for granted. dont lose something before you start to regret.
i hope the girl and the guy on the other end of the phone work out fine. they cared about each other if not they won't be bothering arguing. but they each has a big ego thus they continue to argue. isnt it sad?